Stopping the Poison...

A guaranteed way to stop any poison from your Ex affecting your children forever.

It's sore isn't it when you hear comments from your children that are either un-true, out-of-context, or things that were meant to be confidential and it's your Ex who told the kids.

If you have the overwhelming urge to justify, or correct what your child has just told you from what the Ex said, then you and I have more in common than you first thought.

If you learn and use the techniques that I'm about to show you, you'll avoid any poison that's being fed by your Ex having an effect on your children. And the best part is this lasts forever. No kidding!

This is a way to stop the nasty comments, or even the ignorant remarks that have caused harm in the past, ever causing damage again.

Here's a picture from nature to help you understand what I'm talking about in this important principle.

If you look at the wild plains of an African safari land, you will see lions, zebra, buffalo, elephants and so on all congregating around a waterhole in relative peace while they drink, cool off, or wallow.

Then something changes - and this change is tangible.

What actually happens here is that survival kicks in through the need for basics; eat, drink, or protect. At that point, any threat to survival brings out the Fight or Flight reaction of the animals all around.

This is the same principle that has been studied in humans throughout years of psychological research. Many great names in psychology have identified how we revert to our survival instinct when we feel threatened or hurt in some way where it's very easy to play dirty.

When we've been through a divorce, regardless of the reasons, the two people involved are usually either feeling threatened or hurt - and often we're hurt very deeply.

The depth of hurt we feel usually causes us to become blind to what we are saying or doing to our children. Although friends, family and colleagues can clearly see the behaviour as hurtful or manipulative, we as the hurting person, can't see what we're really doing at all.

Occasionally we may get a glimpse of us not being nice, but quite frankly we justify it away with our hurt deep within. Since we have had a threat to our survival, we become irrational and blind to what's truly going on around us.

Your Ex will be looking at you to try and justify every bit of hurt they feel inside. From this position of threatened survival, they irrationally believe they are right and you are wrong, regardless of the circumstances that has landed you and them in this place.

Now you are aware of the reasoning behind the poisoning...

Here are the 3 action steps to solve the poison effect and get relief from it immediately, forever!

1. Stop justifying, reacting to, or commenting on the poison that comes from your Ex.
2. Take some quiet time alone to write down your feelings about it in a private journal.
3. Remember and start living these four words top of mind: Hurting people hurt others.

RIGHT NOW what you need to do is make sure that you get an antidote for your children. The first important thing to do is invest in this valuable book "Parenting with the Ex Factor" where you will learn how to take each of the three actions steps above and put it into practice.

• You'll gain a peep into the mind of your Ex and the thoughts that can be driving their behaviour.
• I discuss the different developmental stages of your children and how poison at the various stages effects them - and what you can do about it.
• I explain how often two sides of the same coin can cause huge reactions that we're completely oblivious to.

You will also learn the two most important yet subtle ways you can poison the children against the Ex without even meaning too. You will be quite shocked by how even the most well-meaning parent can very easily be handing out poison through pure ignorance.

You can really begin to defuse any negative comments or actions that come from your Ex!

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