Communicating With Your Ex...

One-sided communication that gets results when you're parenting with an Ex that wont reply.

Are you banging your head against the brick wall of silence! When you're not getting any reply from your Ex, then what's next?

If you learn and use the techniques that I'm about to show you, you'll know just what to do. You'll avoid the frustration of waiting for, or trying to extract a response from your Ex.

You'll avoid having to answer "I don't know" to your children.

You'll avoid the repetitious controlling antics of your Ex that end up ruling your life and often your children's lives too.

If you learn and use the techniques that I'm about to show you, you will be able to communicate and live your life to its fullest.

The general rule that applies to conversations is that it's between two or more people. This can be really frustrating when you're up against the 'black hole' of your Ex regardless what you try.

There's more to communication than conversations however. If you can expand your perspective a little, you'll start to see the answers you're looking for. Let me explain a little more.

Have you driven along a road and noticed a billboard? What about listened to the radio? Are these communicating with you? Obviously, yes they are - and they're very powerful, all while being one-sided.

The major challenge comes when you expect to have a conversation with your Ex and get a reasonable response. They may not want to talk to you, and that is their choice. It's not preferable, but it's their choice and you have no control over this.

What you can control though is what you do with this.

It's respectful for someone to communicate with you; especially about the lives of their children. The reality is however, usually lack of respect and communication breakdown are major contributors to the reason for the divorce in the first place.

Granted, it's nice to be kept up to date with messages from school, or know what your child's health issues have been like. It's really helpful to know in advance of upcoming birthday parties for the weekend or holiday plans that effect your planning. All this is really helpful - and cooperative - yet if your Ex is not interested in communicating, you cannot force them into it any more than you can force someone to like strawberries against their will.

If you cannot have a conversation with your Ex that gets a reply when you need it, the time has come to consider the One-Sided Communication that works.

For this to work effectively you need to know what it is that you need to communicate, what the most appropriate way of getting the message to them is, and finally, how to deliver it in a timely manner.

Much like those involved in advertising, you can refine your skills in getting the point across. In the first instance...

Here are the 3 action steps to have the one-sided communication work effectively for you.

1. Stop wasting any communication on trying to figure out what your Ex is doing or thinking. Stay focused on what needs to be said effecting only you and your children.
2. Construct your communication concisely and in full, outlining the consequences if there are any. Remember to avoid using any emotional, blaming, guilty, or demanding words, instead keep it warm and friendly in tone.
3. Deliver it through a written letter, an email, text, phone call and so on. (I warn the use of emails and texts because it is too easy for misinterpretation.) Now, let it go and leave them with it - consequences and all.

To make sure that you start communicating effectively, here's what to do RIGHT NOW. Invest in this valuable book "Parenting with the Ex Factor" where you will learn what to say, how to deliver it, and when to communicate with your Ex.

• You'll also learn how to have face-to-face conversations that really work.
• I discuss the step by step process to avoid using courts to solve your disagreements.
• I explain how to keep a positive attitude even against the ugly Ex.

You can really begin to do your part in communicating effectively for you and your children. You will also begin to learn how your Ex will view post-marriage life quite differently from you, regardless of the agreements first made when you separated. You will be quite shocked by how they view the world so differently.

Save yourself the money of lawyers, the heart-ache of silence, and the wasted energy trying to figure it all out.

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